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kamelia
Negotino Macedonia

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Posted: Sep 6, 2008, 11:31 PM CET

Jan1305 wrote:

If you met somebody in RL and on the first date she says, "Well I want marriage...." You'd be leaning back in your chair a little wouldn't you? It's the same with the profile, just a bit full on.


I had a first date like that rolling on the floor laughing at the beginning of the date he told me he is falling in love with me, and by the end of it he told me he wants to take me to be his wife dropping jaw It just doesn't sound right confused grin





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Lagoona22
Bugibba, Majjistral Malta

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Posted: Sep 6, 2008, 11:31 PM CET

Oh...I'm a total lush...say the word "love", and I dissolve in tears, sobbing into the keyboard....you wouldn't believe it...



crying crying crying laugh

Lillym wrote:
How sweet ... and romantic...






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phoenix
paris, Ile-de-France France

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Posted: Sep 6, 2008, 11:33 PM CET



Another stupid question..

Why do threads go off topic very often...dunno





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MARTI
msida, Majjistral Malta

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Posted: Sep 6, 2008, 11:34 PM CET

cristina wrote:
Hey sweet Marti, i hope you're doing good


Very good thank you and yourself? hug





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Lillym
Sliema, Majjistral Malta

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Posted: Sep 6, 2008, 11:35 PM CET

phoenix wrote:
Another stupid question..

Why do threads go off topic very often...


Answer....Lagoona is on the case..devil





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MARTI
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Posted: Sep 6, 2008, 11:35 PM CET

phoenix wrote:
Another stupid question..

Why do threads go off topic very often...


quite right phoenix yawn





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Lagoona22
Bugibba, Majjistral Malta

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Posted: Sep 6, 2008, 11:37 PM CET

I think it's because we are diabolically evil....we want to piss you off....


rolling on the floor laughing devil D'oh!
phoenix wrote:
Another stupid question..

Why do threads go off topic very often...






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cristina
Lisbon, Groningen Netherlands

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Posted: Sep 6, 2008, 11:40 PM CET

Lagoona22 wrote:
Quite so...but at the same time, if that is what your desire is, why not state it in your profile??...."MARRIAGE".....then all of us guys know exactly what you're looking for.....sometimes simple and direct is better than obtuse, oblique and opaque....I respect totally a profile that states that the owner is looking for marriage. Bang...on the table...nothing to hide. I like that....honesty is refreshing...we all only have 5 minutes of fame...can't muck about, ya know...


But it conveys that it has to be asap.
Long term, when you have a certain age is equal to marriage. It gives room for realxing in knowing each other. If i was so bang when i met two guys from CS, i can imagine how strict must those who are looking for marriage be.dunno
It's like: Marriage or nothing.
When those people are trying to know each other, must be very stressful and less spontaneous, the clock and the note books are there...i thinkwave






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cristina
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Posted: Sep 6, 2008, 11:41 PM CET

MARTI wrote:
Very good thank you and yourself?


Glad to hear.

I'm ok, thankshug kiss





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cristina
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Posted: Sep 6, 2008, 11:43 PM CET

phoenix wrote:
Another stupid question..

Why do threads go off topic very often...


Because they are not a seminarlaugh it's all linked. Does it hurt?sticking out tongue

Sorrygrin





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gangel
Plovdiv, Plovdiv Bulgaria

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Posted: Sep 7, 2008, 12:24 AM CET

phoenix wrote:
Why do so many women on this site look for marriage


And why not ? dunno It's their choice..dunno





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phoenix
paris, Ile-de-France France

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Posted: Sep 7, 2008, 12:26 AM CET

gangel wrote:
And why not ? It's their choice..


You have scary , shifty eyes..





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gangel
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Posted: Sep 7, 2008, 12:30 AM CET

phoenix wrote:
You have scary , shifty eyes..


Why are you insulting now? I was answering to the question...





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phoenix
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Posted: Sep 7, 2008, 12:38 AM CET

gangel wrote:
Why are you insulting now? I was answering to the question...


I am not insulting honestangel ..maybe it's the pose. But it's very good, really.

I agree it's their choice. Each to their own, just think you are more likely to find the right person closer to home. Someone connected in RL rather than in cyber space. I'm sure it happens and anybody who has found the right person I wish them all teddy bear and hope there dreams come true.

Like I said it's a stupid question...







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gangel
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Posted: Sep 7, 2008, 2:41 AM CET

phoenix wrote:
I am not insulting honest ..maybe it's the pose. But it's very good, really.

I agree it's their choice. Each to their own, just think you are more likely to find the right person closer to home. Someone connected in RL rather than in cyber space. I'm sure it happens and anybody who has found the right person I wish them all and hope there dreams come true.

Like I said it's a stupid question...



Pose or not, my eyes are not shifty ..Just because I am not a player..And what you said is very offensive..
And I agree with you bout wishing all the best to all, I do wish that too to them, everyones deserves to find what they want in life.






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smilesRcontagiou
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Posted: Sep 7, 2008, 2:44 AM CET

I don't know why so many women put looking for marriage in their profiles. Maybe it is because of the selections available. Would it help if there was a selection for "looking for friendship and we'll see what happens from there"?

If you meet someone here and click right from the start, that doesn't mean that you're looking at wedding vows?? Of course it doesn't. There are to many other factors involved.

Help me out here, am I naive on this. That is why I usually don't pay attention to that line and usually just go based on the actual write up.

confused





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rusty_knight
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Posted: Sep 7, 2008, 6:23 AM CET

phoenix wrote:
Why do so many women on this site look for marriage


Why not?

Most women get married at some time in their life!

Maybe it's to scare a lot of men off and to hide the fact that they might like sexual intercourse outside of marriage........... you know that women still like to think that they have a reputation and won't sleep with just any old Tom, Dick or Phoenix!

Women like to be thought of 'sexy' but not 'easy'

Men like to think of themselves as 'easy' and 'successful' - it's totally morally wrong but a man who has lots of girlfriends is often thought of as 'lucky' instead of 'sad' by his so-called friends.

A woman cannot put on her profile 'looking for lots of casual sex' if she wants to meet the sort of man she would like to spend the rest of her life with - no man wants to go out with a 'slut' even if he is a bit of a 'slut' himself.

We men have double standards - we prefer almost virginal women, and allow women to have had one or two sexual partners in the past because the only reason they have had another man is that they hadn't met YOU before......... so you can kinda forgive them!

Ok - a woman will put 'looking for marriage' to give the impression she is a sincere, nice woman who won't jump into bed with just anybody - whether she will or not is for you to find out!





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smilesRcontagiou
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Posted: Sep 7, 2008, 9:51 AM CET

rusty_knight wrote:
Why not?

Most women get married at some time in their life!

Maybe it's to scare a lot of men off and to hide the fact that they might like sexual intercourse outside of marriage........... you know that women still like to think that they have a reputation and won't sleep with just any old Tom, Dick or Phoenix!

Women like to be thought of 'sexy' but not 'easy'

Men like to think of themselves as 'easy' and 'successful' - it's totally morally wrong but a man who has lots of girlfriends is often thought of as 'lucky' instead of 'sad' by his so-called friends.

A woman cannot put on her profile 'looking for lots of casual sex' if she wants to meet the sort of man she would like to spend the rest of her life with - no man wants to go out with a 'slut' even if he is a bit of a 'slut' himself.

We men have double standards - we prefer almost virginal women, and allow women to have had one or two sexual partners in the past because the only reason they have had another man is that they hadn't met YOU before......... so you can kinda forgive them!

Ok - a woman will put 'looking for marriage' to give the impression she is a sincere, nice woman who won't jump into bed with just anybody - whether she will or not is for you to find out!



Good point, very true.





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Mirodenia
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Posted: Sep 7, 2008, 10:16 AM CET

Hi, good morning.

Thanks Phoenix for the chance of saying what I think about the CS and marriage issues here.

I have 2 months on the site. From the first day I received a lot of e mails asking for - more photos - more photos - like here is a model agency or worse...
At the begining, stupid me, I sent some to some guys who looked serious. After a while, they all dissapeared without a word. I strongly believe they all collect pictures to masturbate, they are freaks and regarding the Phoenix question:

WE all have to write in our profiles the truth about our intentions. What to hide, why to run across the tail?

For example:

There are a lot of guys here for fun, sex, whatever.

Write in your bloody profile: I want to have sex on a window, I want to fly, I want to save money from psychoterapy....

Stop writing bullshit like almost all write: I am kind, honest, looking for an open (sorry, legs) woman.

And we women the same: I want to marry, I want to have 100 children, I want you to pay all of my bills....rolling on the floor laughing sticking out tongue rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing


Sorry for being so cruel, is Phoenix' fault.

Oh, I liked what Lagoona said about love and getting older. Nice, it's true.moping moping





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rusty_knight
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Posted: Sep 7, 2008, 11:55 AM CET

smilesRcontagiou wrote:
Good point, very true.


The truth sometimes hurts - but in a long-term relationship the truth will 'out'! cool





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